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Alive and Free


Mar 3, 2022

Most couples believe they need trust to build a healthy, long marriage. But trust doesn’t create unity like paying attention does. 

Here’s what I mean: 

When you pay better attention to your spouse, you can accept them for what they are. Too often, we try to impose change on our spouse — which only leads to suffering for both people. 

By paying attention, you can build a marriage bonded by true unity and fully accept the other person for who they are. 

In this episode, Jasmine and I reveal simple strategies that saved our marriage after we destroyed our trust. And how you can build a stronger marriage despite any trust issues you may have. 

Listen now and save your marriage. 

Show highlights include:

  • Why you don’t need to “trust” your spouse to build a healthy marriage (1:08) 
  • How to make your partner open up emotionally to you with physical touch (1:53) 
  • Why using your significant other as an accountability partner poisons your relationship (3:31) 
  • The “vertical relationships” trap which makes creating a strong, lasting marriage almost impossible (6:38) 
  • How to have tough conversations with your spouse (without sounding like a jerk or saying things you regret) (8:52)
  • The weird way sending emails can save your marriage (and why texts don’t work) (9:57) 
  • How curiosity prevents minor arguments from blossoming into full-blown fights (23:17) 
  • The “Playlist Technique” for generating 100 fresh date ideas by the end of the day (28:58) 

If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course. 

If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the ‘F’ Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that’s making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you’ve been missing.

If you’d like to buy a copy of my book, Is That Even Possible?: The Nuts and Bolts of Energy Healing for the Curious, Wary, and Totally Bewildered, you can find it on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/That-Even-Possible-Healing-Bewildered/dp/1512336041